By Concerned Man, 10 years ago on Dating. 13, I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months. We met on a dating site and we both agreed to take down our profiles. I asked if she And offline ones as well. But when messages start appearing about meeting up - I'm forced to wonder what's really going on. Using a dating site to 'make friends' is not normal. Usually it's · He might still be treating your relationship as a casual thing and assuming that you are too. If you want something more, you need to tell him how you feel. Even if he’s not on the · Scenario #1 You’ve been on multiple dates and it’s obvious you both like each other, but you’re not exclusive just yet. As you’re deleting old messages, you see she’s changed her GF of 7 months still active on dating sites. OK, so kind a long story so bear with me. We started talking/hanging out in January of last year. It never really went anywhere or got serious, ... read more
Has she mentioned anything to you about the smoking? Has she asked you to quit? If she has then for sure she is on the prow again. Yes, my GF knows 😄 She is making a half-hearted attempt to give up, but I think she knows I will still love the non-smoky bits of her..
Good luck. I hear ya on the "ashtray" comment. She might see it the same way but doesn't say anything, which explains why she might be on the dating sites. It's pretty unsettling to say the least. Thanks again. R elationship T alk. My girlfriend is on dating sites.
How should I confront her about this? By Concerned Man, 10 years ago on Dating. Johnny Nicks. All smokers know they are seen by the rest of society as Ash-Trays.. what's the surprise! Those may interest you: I discovered my now ex fiancé on hook up sites and dating sites.
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This scenario can be really tricky, but no matter what you do avoid looking like you were snooping for information.
It also depends on many factors. How long have you been dating? Is it same dating site where you both met? Did you already have the conversation to deactivate all your profiles? When she said she was at a friend's house and that I didn't know the friend I let it go - just thought she was bored and visiting someone. She switched her phone off for an hour or so Thursday evening - claimed it was low battery fair enough.
Friday evening around the same time, she sends me a message to say she loves me then turns her phone off. She claims she was sleeping I was thinking 'sleeping with another man'. My imagination might be running in overdrive and I'm overreacting but I've told her before to stop using the site and now she proves that she hasn't. If she's interested in other men, then she should come out and say it.
I think she knows I won't stick around if that's the case. Anyway, tonight I will talk to her about it and make it clear I don't want her to use the site anymore. It sickens me that she has the number and quite possibly the location of some bloke in the neighbouring city.
I cannot trust her anymore. Heh I want to see her skype and phone. This is not a good position to have to be put in. She wants to get on msn and talk to these men.
Again, that's like cheating. I don't know what she's really doing behind my back. I just don't get it that some things check out - I've rung friends who confirmed her location while I was away.
Yet now there's this crap to deal with. To think we were talking about being serious to each other. What a joke that's becoming. What's your opinions? Think it's worth trying to save this? Or should I interpret the sickening CLL messages as a sign of something more?
Btw, I know that I cannot be possessive - I have no problems with her talking to her online male friends. And offline ones as well. But when messages start appearing about meeting up - I'm forced to wonder what's really going on. Using a dating site to 'make friends' is not normal. Usually it's the sign of a cheater. My aunt endured a similar thing from her now ex-husband. He would be on the dating sites behind her back. I don't want the same thing happening to me. Funny how some people can save 'i love you' and act all loving and affectionate, yet be looking around behind your back I keep hoping that it's not the case here.
Copy of the messages: Man 1: age 45, from poland, does business in the neighbouring city to where I live with my gf. I am in yy now : tel. xxxxxxxx Man 1. gf: yes, happy to hear from you and i thought u were lost.
This one concerns me but she hasn't replied to him: Man 2: age 43, living in same city where I live with my gf. I love your smile! Yes you are right..
Swipe Right is our advice column that tackles the tricky world of online dating. We started seeing each other initially as friends — we have a lot of shared interests — and then one day he jumped on me and the relationship became increasingly physical. So far, so good — until we were both looking at something on his laptop, and a dating website came up as one of his most visited sites. I asked him about this, and told him that while I had no wish to pry into his personal life, the question for me was whether he was looking to keep his options open for now, it being early days.
A quick Google search on his user name revealed another three, all with very recent logins. At that stage I was ready to end the relationship and leave him to it. It is true that lots of people set up online dating profiles without ever taking action or using them to meet someone.
This has been most acutely demonstrated over the last week by the data dump from the Ashley Madison platform , which revealed that the site had millions of straight male subscribers, but very few women signed up. In other words, many of the guys who claimed that they never used it to meet women were probably telling the truth: there were few women for them to meet.
Anyone who has done online dating seriously will confirm that there always seems to be people lurking on the edges, folks who are up for a chat but not for a meeting.
Neither reflects well on him, or his self-esteem, or the way that he feels about your relationship. It is very kind of you to look for the best in this situation. News Opinion Sport Culture Lifestyle Show More Show More News World news UK news Coronavirus Climate crisis Environment Science Global development Football Tech Business Obituaries. The guy I'm seeing is still using dating sites. What should I do? Swipe right: helping you navigate the traps of online dating.
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· So before your analyzing mind goes into overdrive, make sure that he is actually active and doesn’t just have some dormant profile up there. When you find your boyfriend is · He might still be treating your relationship as a casual thing and assuming that you are too. If you want something more, you need to tell him how you feel. Even if he’s not on the · Here’s what I suggest: have an open, clear conversation with him about the kind of commitment you’re looking for. Don’t center it around whether or not he’s talking to women GF of 7 months still active on dating sites. OK, so kind a long story so bear with me. We started talking/hanging out in January of last year. It never really went anywhere or got serious, And offline ones as well. But when messages start appearing about meeting up - I'm forced to wonder what's really going on. Using a dating site to 'make friends' is not normal. Usually it's · Scenario #1 You’ve been on multiple dates and it’s obvious you both like each other, but you’re not exclusive just yet. As you’re deleting old messages, you see she’s changed her ... read more
We start talking again. If she has then for sure she is on the prow again. I think she knows I won't stick around if that's the case. Yes you are right.. Currently going through this now. Yes, and when I went on her Facebook page she had pictures of her inside his house. He was remorseful, for his actions, and he worked on himself and proposed.This happened to me. Login first Don't have an account? A female reader, anonymouswrites 29 March :. I am very upset about all this and he turns it on me saying I have trust issues. Sign-up now to read the latest on Anne Cohen Writes! Anyway, I made his life my girlfriend still online dating site. Needless to say now that the holidays are over so is our marriage.